Allistair’s Story

Allistair’s Story

Share your traditions:
Allistair’s story

Meet Allistair

Allistair is a physician, husband and father with a passion for cooking, Marvel movies, and professional football. Living with MND has motivated him to share his knowledge and cultural traditions, especially with his two young sons. Since his diagnosis, Allistair has lost the ability to speak, walk and move his arms. He uses a communication device he controls through eye movement for everything from ordering groceries to asking his sons to water the plants to keeping the thermostat right where he likes it. The device, an I-Series, allows him to coach his sister on cooking and teach his sons his second language, Spanish.

“I have heard about people who have chosen to live in yes/no questions and I think my life is so much more fulfilling because I can still express myself.”

— Allistair Abraham, MD

A physician’s MND Story

While Allistair was in college, he volunteered at a hospital near campus. One day, he saw a sick child dragging a medical pole through the hallways of the facility. When he asked about this, he learned that the child was battling cancer. Soon after, he changed his major to pre-med, determined to help kids with similar illnesses. Eventually, Allistair became a hematologist and dedicated his career to improving treatments for sickle cell disease.  

The first sign that he might have a condition was the feeling of weakness in his hand. Allistair then started to experience some other early signs of MND, including difficulty speaking. He was quickly diagnosed with amyotrophic lateral sclerosis, which is commonly called Lou Gehrig’s Disease.  

Shortly after his MND diagnosis, Allistair’s wife Dana insisted that he bank his voice. With support from the Gleason Foundation, Allistair used Acapela’s my-own-voice solution to create a digital copy of his voice. He read 50 sentences into a computer to capture his accent and tone in different syllables, which would become the building blocks of his digital voice. He also banked a few of the phrases he uses most often. Now that he has lost his natural voice, he’s grateful to Dana for urging him to bank it. He pairs it with a couple of text to speech aps on his I-Series. “It feels like it’s me talking,” Allistair says.

For Allistair, it was hard to be a patient after being a doctor. After he started to lose speech and mobility, he continued to practice medicine for as long as he could from home. Eventually, he had to retire. However, even in the later stages of MND, he attended conferences and peer reviewed articles within the hematology community using his I-Series. The Amercian Society of Hematology now gives an award in his name to the highest performing participant in its research program for minority medical students.

Maintaining normalcy with Lou Gehrig’s Disease

Allistair now has a team of caregivers who help him prepare for the day with medications, feeds, and exercises, but assistive communication has helped him to maintain a sense of independence. In addition to enabling him to have conversations, Allistair’s I-Series serves as an eye-controlled computer, which he navigates through software called TD Control. To surf the internet efficiently, he uses TD Browse, especially to shop for groceries, browse recipes and check email.

Though he often has visitors during the day, Allistair looks forward to his family’s return from work and school in the evening. He uses an app called TD Phone to send his sons friendly reminders to complete their chores via text message. At night, he watches movies and television, using his device to make selections, change the volume and dim the lights.

A man with MND greeting his teenage son in the lobby of their house.

Sharing traditions with assistive communication  

Like many people living with MND, Allistair has taken time to consider his legacy. Beyond his impact on the medical community, he wants to ensure his sons and sister feel connected to their Trinidadian heritage. Before MND, Allistair enjoyed making curries with lentils, chicken and shrimp. When his sister visits, he shares these recipes and teaches her the nuances of each dish as she prepares them. Allistair’s I-Series has also enabled him to teach his sons chess and Spanish, skills they will carry with them for a lifetime.

What is MND?

MND stands for Motor neuron disease. Also called Amyotrophic lateral sclerosis or Lou Gehrig’s Disease, MND causes the brain to stop communicating with the muscles, eventually resulting in complete paralysis, apart from the muscles of the eye, which MND leaves untouched. Early signs of MND may include muscle twitching and weakness, trouble walking and slurred speech. Most people with MND eventually lose their voice. Some rely on assistive communication to continue to express themselves and connect with the world. Though people tend to associate the disease with older males, MND can affect anyone at any age. While MND treatment continues to improve there is currently no cure for MND.